There is that time of year, every year, when employees begin to squirm in their seats about what they should get their bosses. “Last year’s fruitcake was a failure! If I don’t choose right, will I miss out on a bonus”? This is not one sided, as bosses begin to squirm as well. They are asking themselves who they should and shouldn’t give a gift to.
It is a shame that such a joyous effort of gift giving and gift receiving in the workplace is so nerve-wracking. It may be a good idea to review some groundwork to help you - as the employee or the boss - make the right decisions when giving out gifts.
As a general rule of thumb, the boss should try to give gifts to his/her direct office employees. Secretaries, personal assistants, and other individuals who are his/her direct support staff. It is also acceptable for the boss to give corporate gifts to corporate officers or department heads. But make sure you do not play a game of favoritism. Even if you share a particularly friendly relationship with one or more employees, it is not your place to reward them in a business setting for that friendship.
It is better to give no gift than to give a bad gift. No fruitcake, no ties, no calendars. Often, a card is the best solution. It is thoughtful, heartfelt, and not risky at all. If you are taking a risk, be absolutely certain. You do not want the awkwardness of giving a gift the boss already has or doesn’t want. Also, do not give gifts that may insult. Clothes that are too large, cologne or perfume, or anything else that might suggest that what they wear today or look like today is not acceptable. It certainly is not easy, but getting a good business gift is possible. Good luck!

October 5th, 2009 on 4:07 pm
Thanks for the great post!
You had a really good point- sometimes the good nature of giving is lost in all the logistics of the corporate world. I have a blog about practical (and acceptable) corporate gifts, thought you might enjoy it!
http://www.corporate-gift-trends.blogspot.com